The Love Safety Net

Date:  2009-Oct-12

"What Is Security?"
 

All human beings crave security.  But where does security come from and what does it really mean?

For instance, consider the idea of protecting your loved ones from the natural consequences of their own actions; with a child who would burn themselves we yell "Stop", or we pull the candle out of harm's way.  Is the same reaction appropriate however with an adult who is breaking the law (and in doing so, hurting themselves and the people around them)?  Is there really security in shielding them from the consequences of their actions or from the police?

Kim and Steve will cover a lot of "grey areas" in this show, including determining the difference between limiting abuse and imposing your will and what to do if your partner is always pulling away and refusing to negotiate but still gets angry if things are not done "their way".